"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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back to the drawing board.

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cloneofstenyhoyer

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okay here's the scoop: so I was talking to this chick I met on an online dating site. I got her phone number and we became facebook friends. I called her (second or third call) and tried to set up a date but she was busy that day. I make a few more calls to set up date but she is busy with work. chick doesn't really call me back and doesn't respond to every facebook message exchanged. I take these signs as indicators of disinterest. I delete her from my facebook and haven't called her in 2 or 2.5 weeks. I get a text from her saying "hey what's up? haven't heard from you in a while". That was yesterday. I still haven't called her and don't really know where I wanna take it from here. Should I text her back "who is this?" and then we she texts me back I'll say "just kidding - I know who this is". Should I mention anything about her not seeming interested? or just avoid it altogether? should I say I mistakenly deleted her off of my facebook?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ah, disinterest is a powerful tool indeed. It seems like you appeared too desperate to begin with, which is probably why she ignored you. Avoid that in the future.

On the other hand, good job turning it around, she noticed your lack of attention. I've heard the "Who is this?" line work very well in some cases, but I'm not sure when followed up with a "just kidding". Don't feel compelled to use it if you arent comfortable. She knows what she did, you know what she did, don't obsess over it, but don't pretend it never happened.

A DJ has a lot of things to do, a lot of people to hang out with, and is always busy. He doesn't have time for flakes and teases. Give her your attention back slowly, but make her earn it. Keep this in mind and you should be golden.


As a side note, she won't believe you "accidently" deleted her off facebook. She'll probably think you're trying to make up excuses to please her. A solid C/F attitude could work, provided you arent a d*ck
 
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