"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Back to school..

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Well, I have a 3 day holiday now, so going to make the most. I plan to go back to school with a "jerk" attitude. Now, before you all trip over eachother in order to tell me to not be a jerk, and be a DJ etc.
I mean is, if someone gives me slack I'm gonna laugh, I'm gonna be like WTF, your retarded. I'm gonna chill, have fun, flirt , hang out with cool guys, not gonna care. I'm gonna be that Alpha I've always wanted to be. I'm gonna tell my best mate to stop being such a fvcking *******, and if he doesn't get can get stuffed. I'm gonna do my coursework, I'm going to respect my teachers, do my work.
I'm gonna live, I'm gonna do everything I've ever been afraid to do.
I'm also got a small date with a cute little girl my age, we're going swimming, usually I'd be abit worried about my body(I got a lil' layer of fat, not much:D) but now I dont care, I can lose weight, I can gain muscle, if she dont like me, she can gtfo too.
Let's do it!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SilverSonnet said:
I'm gonna laugh, I'm gonna be like WTF, your retarded. I'm gonna chill, have fun, flirt with guys, not gonna care. Let's do it!
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I'd be careful about flirting with guys. They might get the wrong idea. Cheers!
 
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romangod said:
I'd be careful about flirting with guys. They might get the wrong idea. Cheers!
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lol :crackup::crackup:


Siver , thats it . You need to reveal your true better self . And not take sh!t from anyone . Hope it goes all good because some people are gonna be really surprised . Ive done this change some years ago , after i read THE MAN thread by BBB .
 
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yeah, guess what just pulled this REALLY cute girls number on MSN. Didn't do my usual crap, teasing, C+F online, just got the number etc,

The convo ended with this:
Me:We'll meet up in town one day.
Her: Yeah babes;)
(Note: I've been talking to her for 5 minutes and she's already calling me babes? Hmm.:p)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SilverSonnet said:
The convo ended with this:
Me:We'll meet up in town one day.
Her: Yeah babes;)
(Note: I've been talking to her for 5 minutes and she's already calling me babes? Hmm.:p)
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You seriously did something wrong there buddy. How the f*ck did she get the idea that you were _multiple_ _babes_? :crazy:
 
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Lol. The other forum. Well, we have 15 members, including Interceptor, Rollo, Karma, me, WescottII, and a few other characters. It's building up slowly. Need more members to be honest, for larger discussions etc.

:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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romangod said:
I'd be careful about flirting with guys. They might get the wrong idea. Cheers!
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lol owned ... i didnt even notice that hahaha
 
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wow, how I wish I was 14 again and knew all the advice this forum had to offer. Crazy, you could get good at 18 and college would be a roller coaster, and you don't have to end up a 20-30 yr old virgin.
 
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Great man! Proud of you son!! Lol, but uh...yeah flirt with the opposite sex...its safer lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What other forum?

And how the heck you get 2 rep thingies so quick >.>

Anyway, yeah tell us how it goes, try not to slip back into your old self, because it is easily done. In situations you are unfamiliar with, your old self will usually bring itself out but you need to BECOME the new self and it should all be fine.
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God knows, and my other forum(I own it:D)(Well, me and wescottII joint owners:cool:) its in my Signature

"OUR self-improvement forum"
 
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Lol, yeah. I dunno how to widen my audience for the forum, so a stroke of luck maybe ;)
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If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. If you don't know how to do it, then do some research and find out how others have done it. I'd hate to see you waste your energy creating the forum only to have it die because you didn't try hard enough.

ps its not in your PM, its in your signature (link to your forum in your last post)
 
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