Before I start there are two things I want you to do. First, empty your head from all techniques you have in your head for a little while, and second. For every step in this guide GO OUT AND DO IT, NO CHEATING! Do not try to do this guide faster than it is suppossed to, PATIENCE AND SELF CONTROL!
Got that? Good, lets start.
This guide is intended for you who want to get more confidence out in the streets and in the approaches. Feel free to combine it with any other thing.
STEP 1 - Getting the right style
Imagine yourself as the ultimate girl magnet on this globe, you are the best man around and all people would give their life’s just to talk to you. To get you to lift an eyebrow they must do something special.
Here's the exercise:
Once per day 15-30 minutes
Get out on your street. Don't worry about any people around you. Think of a nice jazz-beat with a little nice feeling in. Now walk forward, wave your body with the flow and feel like the Fvcking king. Walk around and wave your body like you don't give a sh!t. Hold your head high, thrust your chest forward. And do that walk for 15-30 minutes. Just get comfortable with it. And don't look like a clown; do that confident wave, not some weird dance. Do this for three or four days or until you get comfortable with that new style. Then jump to step 2.
If you are reading this then go our and do something before I come and spank your a$$.
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STEP 2 - Eye contact
Ok, now you have done that walk, your posture shine with confidence, now it is time to do some eye contact with the girls.
Do the same exercise as above but this time you make eye contact with all the beautiful girls. Look into those eyes, if they smile, give them a small confident smirk. Look like you have seen better, I mean you are the man! Do this three or four days or until you are comfortable to look into girls eyes.
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STEP 3 - Approaching
Now you got the style and the eye contact, lets get down to business. This day you will approach at least 200 people. You think I'm kidding? No way! Get a paper and a pen. Now choose some alternatives to a survey you are about to make. Example:
What food do you prefer?
Italian
Mexican
etc...
You get the idea? Well now adopt that eye contact and confident style of walk and go out and approach people. Say "Hi" and that you are doing a survey. Give them a smile, and ask what they like/prefer. Do this a couple of days until you don't feel anything in your gut when you approach. Try to do some small talk or get to know them, even ask for a number if the opportunity comes. The most important thing is to ask people from ALL GROUPS! You learn much about people if you do.
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STEP 4 - Rejection
Ok, so now you got everything you need. Time to get rejected. Sounds awful right? No it is not that scary. Now you are going to be a reporter.
Start to write 15 questions down that you will ask. Now go out and interview 30 people with these questions. Many people will reject you and say they don’t have time. Don’t worry; it will be good training. Try to get to know the people you are interviewing. Ask about them and practice your listening. Do this a couple of days.
End of part 1
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Got that? Good, lets start.
This guide is intended for you who want to get more confidence out in the streets and in the approaches. Feel free to combine it with any other thing.
STEP 1 - Getting the right style
Imagine yourself as the ultimate girl magnet on this globe, you are the best man around and all people would give their life’s just to talk to you. To get you to lift an eyebrow they must do something special.
Here's the exercise:
Once per day 15-30 minutes
Get out on your street. Don't worry about any people around you. Think of a nice jazz-beat with a little nice feeling in. Now walk forward, wave your body with the flow and feel like the Fvcking king. Walk around and wave your body like you don't give a sh!t. Hold your head high, thrust your chest forward. And do that walk for 15-30 minutes. Just get comfortable with it. And don't look like a clown; do that confident wave, not some weird dance. Do this for three or four days or until you get comfortable with that new style. Then jump to step 2.
If you are reading this then go our and do something before I come and spank your a$$.
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STEP 2 - Eye contact
Ok, now you have done that walk, your posture shine with confidence, now it is time to do some eye contact with the girls.
Do the same exercise as above but this time you make eye contact with all the beautiful girls. Look into those eyes, if they smile, give them a small confident smirk. Look like you have seen better, I mean you are the man! Do this three or four days or until you are comfortable to look into girls eyes.
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STEP 3 - Approaching
Now you got the style and the eye contact, lets get down to business. This day you will approach at least 200 people. You think I'm kidding? No way! Get a paper and a pen. Now choose some alternatives to a survey you are about to make. Example:
What food do you prefer?
Italian
Mexican
etc...
You get the idea? Well now adopt that eye contact and confident style of walk and go out and approach people. Say "Hi" and that you are doing a survey. Give them a smile, and ask what they like/prefer. Do this a couple of days until you don't feel anything in your gut when you approach. Try to do some small talk or get to know them, even ask for a number if the opportunity comes. The most important thing is to ask people from ALL GROUPS! You learn much about people if you do.
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STEP 4 - Rejection
Ok, so now you got everything you need. Time to get rejected. Sounds awful right? No it is not that scary. Now you are going to be a reporter.
Start to write 15 questions down that you will ask. Now go out and interview 30 people with these questions. Many people will reject you and say they don’t have time. Don’t worry; it will be good training. Try to get to know the people you are interviewing. Ask about them and practice your listening. Do this a couple of days.
End of part 1
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