"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Awkwardness after asking em out

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PapiChulo

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I find that most women can not really deal with the awkwardness of having rejected your advances, thus they avoid contact with you and any confrontation. There are only a few of cool ones that are OK with it. I used to be that way, but I act normally around them as nothing ever happened - no shame in asking a woman out and getting rejected. Yet it is still akward because they choose to make it so. Do you guys agree?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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some are that way but i've seen women back in the day insult, turn up their noses. laugh at, and mock guys for even asking them out. then years later they all got old and used up and no guys wanted them anymore. they couldnt get their way then they became angry and bitter old hags. i think anytime if things arent mutual things can get awkward.
 
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Yep. I also think there is some sort of sexual connotation there as well because they know that you still would like to shag them if possible, so they are more aware of you sexually without being sexually attracted themselves.
 
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