"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aw man I just got bested by a chick

seethehoop

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Aw man I just got bested by a chick.

There's a girl from work I have been chatting to on the work IM. We were teasing and playing around,the other day I said I looked younger than her, we had a little banter back and forth then I said she looked ropey. I was playing, she don't look ropey but she got all uptight about it. I played it real cool, not apologising even when she said I had hurt her feelings. I left her hanging about it but today I had to talk to her about some work stuff. Heres how it went:

Me
So you still sulking?

Her
U said I am ROPEY!!!!!!!!!!!

Me
I'll take that as a yes then, any chance ya gonna help me out with sommit

Her
Depends what it is Mr thehoop..!

Me
Blah blah, work stuff

Her
Blah blah more work stuff….Seriously ROPEY?? Heartbroken!

Me
im surprised my opinion has any baring whatsoever

Her
It doesn't actually....its something I have never been called and hope to to be called again....Is that really what u think?

Me
What do you think, am I really that mean?

Her
Well I didnt think so but now am nt sure

Me
In that case I'll leave ya guessing, much more fun for me.

Her
Fine...Im hurt though!

Me
Neh not buying it. I think ya more thick skinned than that.

Me
Im signing off in a min but if I have genuinely hurt ya feelings, I didnt mean it and I apologise.

Her
Hahaha I knew I could get u..! Have a good weekend mr thehoop x

Me
I knew I should have trusted my better judgement, ok you win that one. Have a good weekend.

Her
;)


I took it as far as I wanted to but given that it was a work colleague I started to get a little cautious of the fact that I was playing with fire if I had actually upset her. Cos its near the end of the day and a weekend I thought best clear it up if she really is hurt so I apologised (purely cos its a work thing otherwise I would have left her hanging).

Now I wouldnt suggest doing this sort of thing at work cos women will always have the upper hand in the work place but its a good example of a power play. I lost this one but now I know I can have a little banter with her its cool. I won't push it too far cos its work but it goes to show that women will play power games. This one was fun so I dont mind loosing and I dont think it did any harm to let her win this one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HalfPUAHalfAFC

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Somewhere there's a girl online posting this exact same exchange on a chick-forum bragging how she out-gamed a guy.

Feather in her cap, not yours.

All that said, she sounds fun. Girls with good game are a hoot.
 

omega05

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eh you made a jab at her, she said she was hurt, you apologized, move on...
 

JohnChops

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HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
Somewhere there's a girl online posting this exact same exchange on a chick-forum bragging how she out-gamed a guy.

Feather in her cap, not yours.

All that said, she sounds fun. Girls with good game are a hoot.

Yeah that's true as long and you don't get feelings.for that type of girl. Other than that they make your game more fun.
 
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