"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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midnight said:
Even on Amazon d o t com where you can see user ratings for certain books, its very difficult to judge whether a book is good or bad because people into self-help will go ahead and buy it, read it and if it gives them a handful of "aha" experiences, they will go ahead and give it a 5 star rating... I've seen some really **** books with like 4.5 stars. Hypnosis and anchoring are two things I am fascinated by though unfortunately it is hard to find out who are the current gurus that would fit best for what I want to do..... Which is to broaden my horizens with women.
The user rating on Amazon are just that; user ratings. Personally, I'd stick with the medical journals that cite specific studies or literature that is specific in nature.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
The user rating on Amazon are just that; user ratings. Personally, I'd stick with the medical journals that cite specific studies or literature that is specific in nature.
I will agree with this, if there is legitimate studies performed in the United States that show something has merit and consistency, then that *specific* technique should be considered. In some part of Europe, I've been told by North American Researchers that studies on "alternative" treatments tend to be poorly performed.

I did some research on self-affirmations and I've found some positive studies @ 6, 12, and 24 months. We should put together a seperate post to discuss techniques that have been proven to have merit.
 
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