"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Automatically assuming your future based on your past

Sal

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How many of you do that? You "fail" with some chick in the past and because at the time you believe she's somehow a "9" you'll "never" get anyone better.

Be thankful it didn't work out. Think of all the future things you've experienced you would have missed if you had ended up with the "9 you thought was perfect for you".

Looking back at certain times I SWORE I would or could NEVER get better. Yet even IF at during the time after I was in a "dry spell" my time doing things that were apart from that same individual I thought I'd never meet better than, I would have missed out on had I been with someone who I wasn't meant for who wasn't meant for me.

Look back in life. Think of all the shyt you would've missed, people you wouldn't have met, good things that happened when you weren't with that same person you thought at the time you couldn't live without. Now would you trade all that time, people you met, things you did to go back and be together forever instead if you could?

Sht happens. Chin up. Move forward and grow in a positive direction for YOU and whomever you may end up with or not.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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