Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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drZaius09

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Originally posted by al77
The problem here is most men are NOT good looking, they have nothing to "act on" fast. In fact they seem want to aim at b), i.e. try to talk to her more and hope that the illusive type b will show up.
I think what we're trying to achieve here (at least I am) is the path of least resistance to get in that ass. I don't care what you look like, there are girls out there that will find you attractive from the moment they meet you. There is more involved than just physical features; your body language, outw#rd displays of confidence, and attitude are all determining factors as well. Those are the things we can work on right now that will increase our range of available targets.

"Talk to her more and hope..." is not a game I want any part of whatsoever. F#ck that, it's not even close to worth the effort, and you know it.

EDIT: WTF!?!? I can't write the word "outw#rd"??!?? (with an "A") Someone please explain...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by drZaius09
I think what we're trying to achieve here (at least I am) is the path of least resistance to get in that ass.
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"Talk to her more and hope..." is not a game I want any part of whatsoever. F#ck that, it's not even close to worth the effort, and you know it.
I think you are right. If given an almost infinite population of women, then it'll sure work.
The reality is that most guys (maybe around 70-80%) find it very hard to find any decent women (not fat, not ugly, single and not scared to talk to a stranger). So they cling on any opportunity "and hope...".
 
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