De La Soul
Master Don Juan
Smile! It's the secret to charisma. It may sound corny, it may sound cheesy but it is definitely a biggy.
MYTH: A lot of hot girls are attracted to distant, brooding type guys who rarely smile.
FACT: A lot of hot girls are attracted to guys who smile.
Many of you will be saying, "But I ALWAYS SMILE! So where are my women?" Ah but do how much do you really smile? Think about it......................do you really smile very often? I seriously doubt it. Next time you are out, make a conscious effort to smile, you'll notice yourself doing it, and you'll notice yourself getting more positive interactions. Smiling alone won't get you a woman, but it is does go a long way in getting you one for two simple reasons:
1. Smiling is a non-verbal ice-breaker. It conveys warmth and lets the person who you smile at know that you accept him or her.
2. Smiling is a great interest-level gauge. If you look a girl in the eye and smile at her, and she doesn't smile back, her interest level is minimal.
However if you smile at a girl and she smiles back you know that she has at least SOME interest AND if you smile at a girl and hold eye contact with her for an extended period (i.e. a few seconds longer than is normaily expected) it is more than likely that she has VERY HIGH interest level (unless of course she looks away because of nervousness).
Next time you see a hot girl: smile at her and hold eye contact...it's a great way to show warmth, acceptance, and to judge interest levels.
"A smile is a powerful weapon; you can even break ice with it."
De La Soul
[This message has been edited by De La Soul (edited 05-16-2002).]
MYTH: A lot of hot girls are attracted to distant, brooding type guys who rarely smile.
FACT: A lot of hot girls are attracted to guys who smile.
Many of you will be saying, "But I ALWAYS SMILE! So where are my women?" Ah but do how much do you really smile? Think about it......................do you really smile very often? I seriously doubt it. Next time you are out, make a conscious effort to smile, you'll notice yourself doing it, and you'll notice yourself getting more positive interactions. Smiling alone won't get you a woman, but it is does go a long way in getting you one for two simple reasons:
1. Smiling is a non-verbal ice-breaker. It conveys warmth and lets the person who you smile at know that you accept him or her.
2. Smiling is a great interest-level gauge. If you look a girl in the eye and smile at her, and she doesn't smile back, her interest level is minimal.
However if you smile at a girl and she smiles back you know that she has at least SOME interest AND if you smile at a girl and hold eye contact with her for an extended period (i.e. a few seconds longer than is normaily expected) it is more than likely that she has VERY HIGH interest level (unless of course she looks away because of nervousness).
Next time you see a hot girl: smile at her and hold eye contact...it's a great way to show warmth, acceptance, and to judge interest levels.
"A smile is a powerful weapon; you can even break ice with it."
De La Soul
[This message has been edited by De La Soul (edited 05-16-2002).]
