Attention whres….cane they be tamed? Or captured? controlled?

[Gustav Yavo]

Last night I had this great time with a friend of mines sister. We had met two times before and she always showed signs of interest (touching, texts me, always around me), so this third time I decided that it was time to make a move. We chatted, I acted C + F, which she loved, hand massages, palm readings, legs touched whenever we sat down. She would fallow me around like a horny dog. There was one point in the night where I decided to take a break off her and go talk to some fine women that had just walked in, she went to some random guys her friends were talking to. After a good 30 mins I bought a drink and sat down, which she came right back to me. It was great! Or so I thought….
Time progressed and we began to get closer as the music got louder. I started the triangular gaze, while holding her hands, and I went in for the kill. Now she did not directly reject my kiss or become repulsed or anything like that, but she did not let me kiss her on the lips. Now me being drunk stayed and buttered her up some more, which she loved, so I go in for another kiss, again the same sh!t.

So I get home and begin to ponder, what went wrong. Was it me, I don’t think so, I’ve tried the same or similar **** on other girls we still made out. So WTF happened.

Well it appears I was taken by an ATTENTION WHRE!!!

Well at least that’s what I think.
1) The reason she did not leave when I tried to kiss her and continued leading me on is cause she wanted the attention
2) The reason she was so flirty was because she loved the attention.
3) The reason she left the guys that her friends were talking to was because they did not pay much interest in her cause they were preoccupied with her friends.

But what I really want to know is, is there a method (theory or proven) to get into the pants of an attention *****, like is there any way you can play around her attention seeking, or break down that attention seeking barrier (sneak past it maybe)? I know the “smart” thing to do is just to cease contact with her, and move on, but I just don’t want to give up that easy.

 

[KontrollerX]

Sure.

Just make her work harder for your attention.

If she pulls that not letting you kiss her crap again ignore her all night despite any of her attempts to get your attention back like offering to kiss you or even have sex with you as at that time it will be a trick just to get your attention back you must act stone cold to any offers she gives you after having insulted you and just act like she doesn't exist.

While ignoring her after she insults you, then you should probably try and get with other chicks if you can such as flirting with them or kissing them if they let you.

This will drive her crazy that she is no longer your focus.

Then the next time you see her somewhere you can begin to give her some attention again but always keep response costs in mind and what response costs are is every time she exhibits bad behaviour towards you, you go cold towards her for a while.

All this will really get her hot for you over time as these women are not used to men rejecting their advances.

Then all you have to do is find some way to get her alone with you so you can escalate things further.

Being alone with her will up the heat for her since you will be her only source of her much needed attention.

It could be tricky to get her alone though as they are notorious flakes ie you set something up that indicates interest on your part and she can get her validation from that and go oh he wants me so bad and then not show up.

So you'll have to be creative.

You must let these women take control of the sexual element of things as they usually go cold fish if the guy initiates as that means you are interested in her and thats pretty much the kiss of death for getting something going with these people.

However thats not saying don't kiss her if you sense she wants to be kissed but yeah definitely try to let her initiate most of the kino and stuff like that and act unfazed to it all. The more unfazed you are the hotter she will get until she can't help but fvck you or test you by offering to give you a BJ or HJ.

Don't let her do either.

Say "none of that sorry but when I do this with girls I go all the way or nothing."

She'll be surprised you have the confidence to reject her sexual appetizers but in typical AW fashion trying to win the game she'll say well then I guess its nothing. Of course she's trying to get you riled up with this hoping you'll plead for the earlier scraps of sexuality from her that you rejected.

Don't do it.

Say ok then walk out the door.

The non caring attitude is what really gets to them.

The next time you'll be with her after this she'll be your sex slave.

It won't last though.

Unless you're a sociopath relationships with AW always have a shelf life.

Cluster B are 24/7 365 days a year games players.

If you do not attack such a relationship with that same sick mindset you will pay the price.

Let the buyer beware.

Of course if you're just looking for a few days/weeks of fvcking and no relationship you're good to go but yeah they have a way of drawing you in thinking you can change them and that they want to be changed.

You can't and they don't so lets get that out of the way right now.

Good luck.

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Thanks man, f*uck i guess im gonna have to keep on my toes next time i see her. Make sure i dont fall prey to any of her "attention seeking" advances.

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Wait..... That would only work assuming that this Attention Whre actually likes me or would make out with me.

 

[KontrollerX]

Yeah the key is the old phrase "Know Thyself."

If you know yourself you know what you want from a girl or situation.

Its all about keeping the eyes on the prize and not letting things get out of control.

Like say you could have a mission plan in mind like this...

Get close to girl, fvck girl for a while, let it stay at FB status for as long as humanly possible.

But then however if you don't really know yourself this is what happens...

She begins to grow on you, your emotions are now involved, you deny it of course to yourself and say oh thats silly but after a while you think hey she's still here and with me, maybe she's not an AW after all or maybe she is but she's reformed!

Its usually at that precise moment things begin to go downhill in these relationships.

They are never reformed.

Its all one big con and mind game.

The normal person is the only person actually "in" that relationship.

They view you as an easily replaceable cartoon character represenation of their basic animal needs that can easily be replicated in another man. None of your status, individuality, money or fame matters to them, only the dreamlike fantasy they have constructed around you matters to them and when they wake up from that fantasy and begin dreaming again woe to you who loved them for the dream for you is now over and the girl you loved gone with that dream never to return again.

So really work on knowing yourself if you don't already as that way you will be able to know with relative certainty whether you can keep your emotions totally out of a situation like this or not.

They sense when you love them or they have gotten to you like a shark senses blood in the water and soon thereafter its all over so yeah make sure what you want of her is purely physical and as aliasguy might so eloquently say "enjoy her, use her up and then be done with her."

The end lol.

Edit: It will work if she shows you even moderate interest.

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Lol thanks! i guess theres no hope for these girls then. Wtvr i guess im just gonna proceed to give the age old "bang and boot" treatment.