"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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attention wh0res.. avoid or try then quit?

big weezy

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it's well known that attention wh0res should be avoided as they are low quality girls for a relationship etc.. however generally speaking nearly all very hot girls are attention seeking, mostly male friends type of women.

i understand dont get involved with an attention wh0re as she'll just use u for attention.. BUT somebody is going to be f'ing her.. who is that guy and what is he doing differently that the other orbiters arent?

obviously every guy is going to approach her and she is going to be welcoming. at what point do u stop giving her attetion responding to her texts to make her ACT rather than just talk?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigneil

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Somebody is f*cking her, and it might be you one week, but someone else the next week. Then back to you, then off to someone else again. She won't sleep with just anyone of course - only if they are male or female, old or young, rich or poor, smart or dumb, and black or white. Whoever gives them the attention they need at whatever fly-by-night moment she needs it.

Use her for all she's worth but don't fall in love. I learned that the hard way, trust me.

"Tried to please her
She only played one night stands now
She was a day tripper
Sunday driver, yeah
It took me so long to find out
And I found out".

Lennon/McCartney 1965
 

Kirro

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Know when to withdraw yourself. & this is the reason its good to be busy. When you're truly busy, when your time is truly occupied doing productive things flakes, rejections & AWs become trivial matters that you can shrug off like a bug swatted out of the air.

When you've got a lot going on, you lower your tolerance for BS. On instinct when a girl isn't doing what you want you'll immediately drop her. The benefit of this is, the more productive you are to yourself(educating yourself, working out, building social circles, having hobbies you enjoy) the more you set yourself apart from many many generic drone dudes & the better of a catch you are meaning that when you withdraw the idiot girls will chase.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Who's fvcking her? The guy that actually asks her out sometime and goes for it. I got with a girl who was a total AW, had daddy issues, tons of nice guy friends, all that. It's not that difficult.

These orbiter guys are probably just constantly complementing her and trying to "connect" with her, just a couple of nice guys.
 

mahoney

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the real AWs are all the dudes who need constant reassurance, validation and contact from girls the whole time. dudes who start having a meltdown and talk about deleting a girl from their cell because they didn't get a text for 2 days

dudes who write girls but don't even say anything of any interest, just wanting a response

im kinda suspicious of dudes that call girls attention *****s - most of them could look a bit closer to home
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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