"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attention gigolo

Die Hard

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If a man behaves the same way as an attention wh0re, I guess that makes him an attention gigolo, right? :p

So do any of you ever do this? I mean, flirting with a girl until she starts chasing you and then just ignore her? Just for the kick you get out of it, coz it makes you feel like women are your toys and it boosts your ego?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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I don't do it for an ego boost, I do it for social proof. Women are competitive, and the more women feel like they're competing for your attention, the more interested they'll be.
 

yuppaz

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Used to do it, (not consciously) but then I realized what a tool I was being and grew up
 

zekko

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I've done this with attention hos before. Just to give them some of their own medicine back. I figured they were messing with me so I messed with them back. They get quite p!ssed off when you withdraw the attention.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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