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At what age do you become too old for the "flashy" part of the game?

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I guess flashy isn't the right word to use but maybe the popular and showing off part of it. Hope @bigneil knows I am not taking a shot at older guys here but genuinely want to know the answer to this as all younger guys on here will get older some day.

Like back in my college days, I would occasionally go to parties, take pics with multiple girls, and put them up on social media. Towards the end of my college days I would put up pics of me on a date with a girl and we would get a lot of likes on my page which did a ton for my confidence as a guy.

Now even though @bigneil has gone at me and said that I hate the fact older guys do well out there, I have nothing against it, in fact I am happy about it because it gives me something to look forward to when I get to my 30s. I actually don't doubt that a lot of older guys out there are killin it but they might be keeping it all on the down low since they don't want a girl to deal with her judgmental social circle.

My question here is along the lines of, at what age do you get too old to show off your success with women? At what age does it start to go from cool player to just a try hard?

At what age does it stop being acceptable for a guy to stop taking Halloween pics with a couple of hot girls on his arms?
 

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Stupid question as always with OP's threads.

There is no cut off point.

Guy is either a massive feminist or just attention wh0ring.

Don't listen to Olly.
 

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My question here is along the lines of, at what age do you get too old to show off your success with women? At what age does it start to go from cool player to just a try hard?

At what age does it stop being acceptable for a guy to stop taking Halloween pics with a couple of hot girls on his arms?
at the age that your friends stop being fun and start being lame (which is usually whenever they get married or have kids or feel they're growing too old for fun), that's only assuming you don't replace them at this point
 

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You care too much about the opinion of others. There is no age limit to anything in life. If you want to do it, you do it without giving a single fvck about what others think about you. Regardless of what you do, there will always be those who have a negative opinion of you(r action). Even right now, while you may think posting pictures of you on a date with a girl is acceptable, there are scads of people who think otherwise. So stop trying to please everyone and do what the fvck you want.
 

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Contribute something else besides these age, college, high school status posts. Closed.
 
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