"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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At what age did you "fatten up"?

Zircon

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I hear from a lot of people (and see, and believe me it's not always pretty:) ), that at a certain age (24 - 30) you suddenly start gaining weight more easily. Most people gain fat though and not muscle.

I'm 25 and up till the age of 24 I used to weight 64 kg. Now I'm about 70 at 5'11.

Anyone have similar experiences? Can I expect to make "easier" muscle/weight gain in the next 3 years? btw I used to be a skinny ass mofo, at 18 I was about 5'8 and 52 kg's so it seems I'm maturing much slower than most.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zircon

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I'm sure habits come into play (eating and excercise), but I think your metabolism slows down somewhat as well?

I mean the extra 6 kg I gained was not from change of habit. Just a bit more gym. And I believe maturing as well.
 

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I am also 25, over the past 2 years I have gained 30lbs of fat. Its funny I didnt change anything over those 2 years but my exercise habits, I stopped. But I dont think it was entirely from eating, I think my metabolism has slow down. Now, I am back working out, and getting more muscular, lean as the weeks go by.
 
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