"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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at the bar and a guy hits on ur girl

Lust

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Turn so you are facing your girlfriend, and not him, whisper something like

"Wow, he wants you so bad, look at him, i'll be nice, be back in a sec"

Or something that portrays that you can't give half a fvck what happens, then, wink, walk off, and like the guy above me said, just go out, talk to some randoms, stuff like that.

One thing though, you must really establish that you are the prize with her, and i mean the ultimate prize, cause if she is still uncertain, she will see you with other girls, and try and make you jealous with the little pawn that she found, and everynow and then, a girl will go as far as kissing, making out, whatever with guy, to see your response.

If she knows you are the best thing in the world, and already know your response, she will come over to you and beg you to kiss her in front of everyone in the room.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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actually she does know that i could go have sex with whatever girl i wanted, we went through this. And i don't have a life? lol... i have more woman friends then guy friends and those women friends were put there because of me (cuz i wanted them to be there). i have lots of game, and i just asked for someone from experience to tell me what they would do. i don't go to bars often, in fact i'm only 20...so therefore i DONT KNOW, so i ask. Once again...this has nothing to do with the girl, it has to do with some piss-off blantantly saying sexual remarks to my girl in front of me...almost like to just piss me off...like he gets his gollys off that type of stuff.

and in fact i did kiss her, SHE wanted to right after that happened, everytime.

i'm telling you to me i just feel disrespected cuz this apparent friend is trying to get in her pants...even tho she wouldn't.

maybe i care about nothing...in that case i'll get over it real soon.
 
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