djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Got lucky, only insecure girls and attention seekers do that, it's a great filter.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Asking out, calls, texting. ...It's all chasing.
- Thread starter wifehunter
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SuckItUp
Senior Don Juan
Chasing implies something is running away. Demonstrating interest is not chasing because the woman is in front of you. It's when she plays games, confuses you, and sends mixed messages that you are chasing because she's pulling away.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
yeah but she was so hot and had huge boobs that it really doesn't feel like a win at all