"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Asking Her for "Advice"

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SyncBoss

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What do you guys think of asking a girl you like for advice for "someone you like" and then when she gives it to you, using that very same advice on her.

Has anyone tried this before or am I just being stupid?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Could be a fun thing, but nah. Like, I'd do it for fun, but it'd be completely overt and exaggerated. However, you probably need to follow the general guidance of this subforum and she won't likely give good advice anyway.
 
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NDJ is right. Like if she says to just ask her out to dinner, you leave a big note on her car or locker asking her to dinner, something like that. This has to be a game a confident person plays, not a game a scared person plays.
 
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