Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Asking for a customers digits at Work? How?

Hikapo

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I work at Starbucks and there is this lady around 27 that i have talked to a couple of times. She gave me some IOI's and i would like to ask her out.

The problem is, i am at work, so just asking for her digits while working is unprofessional? Any thoughts or solutions would be appreciatiated. Thanks.

I am 22 by the way, all my co-workers told me to go for it lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2Pac_Makaveli

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Ask her if she has any plans for the weekend and if she ain't doin nothin, why not take her somewhere? You'll need her number to do that.

Asking for her number in starbucks is not really unprofessional, I say carpe diem and go for it.
 

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jeez i asked so many girls out while working and ur worried about one lol. i actually asked same question before though. Go up to her say

i think your interesting and i want ur number what is it...
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hey i am kind of busy right now but i would like to know u a bit more, whats ur number

thats it. One thing about work just do it fast, my boss didn't really care when i did it, but when i am chatting to a girl for 20 minutes well i got displinaried lol, so keep it 1-2 mins top. If u do ur **** ur boss shouldn't really care, their is no harm in asking a girl her number, just watch the regulars, could get awkward. the girls that come often i would just use them as social proof unless shes really special like ur 27 yr old maybe lol.
 

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unprofessional? unless you feel like you'll be at your job 3-5 years from now or go on to be store manager it doesn't matter. Each job you take as an experience, learn what you can and make money. You move to the next one and so on until you find a career.

If she comes in around close to when your getting off work just let her know

DJ:hey i get off in 10 minutes. Let's grab some coffee on me.

you get free coffee or discount and it would be kinda hard to decline or blatantly obvious(she's not interested). You know she is there for coffee.

If your not getting off soon ask if u cna take your break then.
Ask for what she wants to drink and assume that you don't know it even if you do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a dangerous thread my friend............could get you reprimanded or fired.

find out where she works and go there, but if U choose to venture on this potential for disater thread......

Whip out your cell, hand it to her and inform her to insert her digits.....then say something like......let me get your digits so we can "hang" sometime.......maybe grab a coffee lol.

Ballsy yes but you are flirting with the clients so might as well go for broke.
 

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Here's what you do......to a T. Next time you see her, jump on the register so you're ringing her up. In a joking way, just say "do you actually like this Starbucks, or do you just come here to see me?" Judging by her reaction you know whether to proceed further. If she laughs, blushes or smiles, just say, "you should come earlier /later (time when you're off) so we can go to lunch/dinner afterwards. As far as getting in trouble, as long as you don't come off as a perv, you shouldn't get in trouble.
 

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My boss said she wouldnt mind. I just saw her today but I didnt ask when I had a chance. I am doing it next week. Drewskie thats a good one but I donno I will be able to pull that off.
 
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