mindripper06
Don Juan
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Look I would love to ask girls out who dont have a boyfriend, but I'm into 9's and 10's. And as we know, 9's and 10's are never single. Ever.
OK so where I work I get to meet a lot of 9's and 10's, and unfortunately I also get to meet their boyfriends.
Some of these girls give me seductive looks when I see them ALONE without their boyfriends. I'm tall, good looking and physically in good shape. My inner game though isnt that good, I admit. And in my mind I'm thinking "I can't ask her out even though she is giving me signs of interest. She'll think I'm a complete tool. I just talked to her and her boyfriend the other day. I don't want her to stop thinking I'm a nice guy, and if I ask her out she'll think I'm a tool, or worse than that, she'll think I'm some kind of creepy weirdo".
Is there any justification to my thinking? I mean, these girls arent married, right? Is it that big a deal if I ask some of them out knowing they are "with someone"? Another thing I'm thinking is "she'll tell her boyfriend if I ask her out, and then he'll come over and try to start a fight with me". Would a girl who found me attractive, but had a boyfriend, tell her boyfriend if I asked her out? Like do you think she'd say "Hey you know that guy who works at (wherever)...he asked me out today you know!!" would a girl do that?
I wanna ask some of these girls out and I KNOW some of them give me looks and signs of interest, but I'm afraid because they have boyfriends. What should I do?
OK so where I work I get to meet a lot of 9's and 10's, and unfortunately I also get to meet their boyfriends.
Some of these girls give me seductive looks when I see them ALONE without their boyfriends. I'm tall, good looking and physically in good shape. My inner game though isnt that good, I admit. And in my mind I'm thinking "I can't ask her out even though she is giving me signs of interest. She'll think I'm a complete tool. I just talked to her and her boyfriend the other day. I don't want her to stop thinking I'm a nice guy, and if I ask her out she'll think I'm a tool, or worse than that, she'll think I'm some kind of creepy weirdo".
Is there any justification to my thinking? I mean, these girls arent married, right? Is it that big a deal if I ask some of them out knowing they are "with someone"? Another thing I'm thinking is "she'll tell her boyfriend if I ask her out, and then he'll come over and try to start a fight with me". Would a girl who found me attractive, but had a boyfriend, tell her boyfriend if I asked her out? Like do you think she'd say "Hey you know that guy who works at (wherever)...he asked me out today you know!!" would a girl do that?
I wanna ask some of these girls out and I KNOW some of them give me looks and signs of interest, but I'm afraid because they have boyfriends. What should I do?