Asked for date... She said "Maybe"

[nismo-4]

In the words of Nismo...

"she wouldn't say 'Maybe' to Channing Tatum, would she?"

And damn sure wouldn't say it to Lebron James or Steph Curry.

She knows he's interested. Anything other than a yes with the proper actions to back it up is a no.

OP, move on from this low interest girl. Go after one who has interest in you.

Keep talking with this one if you want to be her new orbiter. That's what most girls use the grey limbo area for. Making you chase. Or at least get the hint she's not interested.

Women love attention, far more than an actual date.

Case closed.

 

[Krueg]

@Espi, I waited 4 days to call, after getting the number.. Unless you talking about when I tried calling? I only messaged her back cause she texted me back, saying she was busy working. Thats when I asked for a date.

Anyways.. I did what you guys said and just Ignored her. She never called back. I ended up going out either way and had a good time. Met some other girls and ran into some old friends.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I said "I was calling to see if you like to meet me at (Country Bar) this Friday - dancing starts at 8pm. She texted back saying "Maybe"

Your text is too weak. Tighten it up next time.

"Drinks and dancing at Country Bar, Friday at 8 pm. Meet me there?"

Your reply to any "maybe" text should always be to withdraw the offer and ask someone else. You can nudge a bit for fun to see where she goes with it, then chalk it up to playing dumb. "Is that a yes?"

Bottom line, anything other than a "yes I'll be there" is a no go. So plan to take someone who will say yes.

 

[Masculinity]

I did what you guys said and just Ignored her. She never called back. I ended up going out either way and had a good time. Met some other girls and ran into some old friends.

Handled it well.