"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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asked a christian girl out for lunch

thatsexytaiwanguy

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i asked a girl out for lunch on monday, and wen i called today to ask her if she was still down to go tommorow....she said she had forgot. what does this mean?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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or maybe she has a bf already
 

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even though she said she forgot, i ate with her today but she invted her friend to join us. we played cards and after i told her all firends that are girls i make end up liking me, she said that " she wont' be liek all those other friends." i am so confused. she flirts with me, but she keeps giving me mixed messages. she jsut broke up with her boyfriend..she said she still likes him but they can't be together.
 

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thatsexytaiwanguy said:
she jsut broke up with her boyfriend..she said she still likes him but they can't be together.
Then you're screwed. Depending on how hardcore of a christian she is, you might be able to swing a rebound, but thats it. Back off of her for a couple months, but dont disappear completely.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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