"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ask out or ask for a phone number same thing or not? (pros and cons)

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So is this the same thing or not? Is one response likely to differ to the other? Any pros or cons would one or the other make said girl feel more comfortable?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just want it to end either way RC......it's more the saga than the girl that's killing me and it has to stop........there's only one way I can do that......and it's not by freezing her out......today is the day.....I have a plan.......wish me luck.......either way by the end of the day I'm gonna be feeling a shightload better about things.

You've heard of FML? Well FMW. She's the problem here not the solution.
 
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