"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ASAP:Asking Girl Out, Over Facebook..

thisislife

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Hey guys basically over the last couple of weeks there's been this girl in my high school who's been floating around. We talked once but only briefly. Anyways I haven't really seen her around ever since, and considering that tommorow is the last day of school which means it won't be very likely that I'll see her again so i messaged her on facebook just saying I'd like to talk some more and asking for her digits, but she responded that she would give her number but she doesn't currently have a cell phone (which is true as she has a status on her fb stating she lost her phone dating back to over a week ago).
Anyways, my questions are

1. How do I respond to that message?

2. There is 1 last day of school left but the chances of running into her are quite low, and I'm not sure what I would even say in person, if anything?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Barracuda

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1. How long did it take her to reply?
2. What was the tone of her reply? Any IOI's? Any signs of interest? Did she ask you any questions?
3. What does she know about you?

My advice is, don't reply (unless her message warrants one i.e. she has asked you something / made an effort to keep the contact going).

Wait til she's got her new phone and see if she gives you her digits voluntarily.

If not, wait a while.. if she's online sometime, strike up some banter, game her a bit, if her interest level looks good then go for the digits.
 

DJ_Dave

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Yeah, sounds like she was probably going to give you her number so wait until she gets a new phone. As suggested, if that's all she said probably best to see if she responds but if theres an opportunity to carry on messaging her on facebook you might aswell, see if she seems keen. Try and ask her out someway other than facebook if you can.
 

SgtSplacker

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Don't get too hung up on getting her cellular number dude. What? are you starting a number collection? I'd start gaming her right on FBook...
 

PDubb75

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Do you two have any mutual friends? Or at least friends of yours that she somewhat knows/is comfortable with?

The best thing for you to do would message her and say something along the lines of: Hey, I'm heading to ______ with SoAndSo tomorrow. You should come with us.

Facebook game is pointless in my mind if you have ever met in person. Sure, you can supplement real game with random FB stuff, but try to take it off of technology.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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