I have finally arrived at a place I don't quite have a name for. In short , it's peaceful - I feel content , a balance in my life that I have never felt before. I like/love women but will NOT go out of my way for them , my priorities stand alone as #1.
I haven't been doing any pick up at all , I have just been sticking to social circles and talking to girls I knew from the past. My grandpa told me , women are different bit they are the same.
They speak the same language -emotion. If a woman likes you , you don't have to break your back to get a date , 2nd date or sex.
My advice is to STOP anything that is FORCED , don't force your self - just flow like the river and go about your main business first.
Understand that life is about PREFERENCES , what I like ...you will probably not like. In fact , if we asked all members to list what they like about their ideal woman , we would probably end up with less than 1% match. A woman or multiple women rejecting you does not lower your value - you simply don't fit their preference. Granted though , it's a fine line as you should ALWAYS try to improve yourself as a man. Not everyone is blessed with good genes but as a man , you SHOULD meet the basic hygiene needs.
When it comes to self improvement , remember that 1% can and usually makes the difference. The colour or shirt style you chose to wear can separate you from the pack.
Lastly , I strongly recommend that you EMBED in your skull that women will equal happiness. In fact believe it or not , your friends offer more happiness than ANY woman could. In marriages , happy or not ..both men and women still seek to have time with their friends ...is this a coincidence? No ! You get tired of people **** after a while When you are able to flick this switch and focus on your self , you will start to see results flow.
Blessings brothers.
I haven't been doing any pick up at all , I have just been sticking to social circles and talking to girls I knew from the past. My grandpa told me , women are different bit they are the same.
They speak the same language -emotion. If a woman likes you , you don't have to break your back to get a date , 2nd date or sex.
My advice is to STOP anything that is FORCED , don't force your self - just flow like the river and go about your main business first.
Understand that life is about PREFERENCES , what I like ...you will probably not like. In fact , if we asked all members to list what they like about their ideal woman , we would probably end up with less than 1% match. A woman or multiple women rejecting you does not lower your value - you simply don't fit their preference. Granted though , it's a fine line as you should ALWAYS try to improve yourself as a man. Not everyone is blessed with good genes but as a man , you SHOULD meet the basic hygiene needs.
When it comes to self improvement , remember that 1% can and usually makes the difference. The colour or shirt style you chose to wear can separate you from the pack.
Lastly , I strongly recommend that you EMBED in your skull that women will equal happiness. In fact believe it or not , your friends offer more happiness than ANY woman could. In marriages , happy or not ..both men and women still seek to have time with their friends ...is this a coincidence? No ! You get tired of people **** after a while When you are able to flick this switch and focus on your self , you will start to see results flow.
Blessings brothers.
