"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bud_2005

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There is the girl that likes me and she calls me a lot but she pretty much expects me to carry the coversation most of the time which sucks. The next time we talk what are some good questoins that most people wouldn't have the guts to ask her. "Do you shave" and the sex topic are some things I can think of.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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here's a quick 3-question quiz from Player_Supreme, I used it once with a girl I was chatting online with from myspace...which I proceeded to get a number and bj from:
Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Here is a fun game you can play at a bar with a new interest. I have been using it for years...some of you may of seen it before

You ask her 3 questions and have her describe each in 3 words

1. favorite color
have her describe in 3 words

2. favorite animal...fish what ever non human
have her describe it in 3 words

3. favorite body of water...ie..ocean, pond. lake.river ...ect
have her describe it in 3 words

Friday I will post what each on means and how to tell how she is in bed....women love these kind of games and test....unfortunately my company just arrived...

For those that want post your answers to the above here are mine to use as an example when a buddy of mine pulled this on me about 20 years ago.

1. blue...powerful, deep mysterious
2. wolf...strong fierce, loyal
3. ocean. deep powerful, endless.
Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Ok here is the rest of the game:

1. the color describes how you view yourself or your inner personality.

2. the animal is how you want others to see you...your outter personality.

3. the water is your sexual side....describes how you make love.


So far the women whom I've poled with this game over the last 19 years or so have been almost true to mark.

with the body of water the larger the body the larger the sexual nature....some make love like an ocean...some make love like a river...fast and flowing....get it.

This game is a great part favorite.....and women will be then open to what you guys call the kino....helps get them in the right direction.
What I like is that it's not overtly sexual or sex-related, but it gets things going...and depending on her response, you can lead it directly to sexual topics. I think it's also a great thing to say to chicks at a bar/club, but I've yet to try it there.
 

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Uh would this work on high school girls. I could see most girls saying: uhhh I dont know.
 

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Originally posted by bud_2005
Uh would this work on high school girls. I could see most girls saying: uhhh I dont know.
Yeah, I don't know...I'm not in highschool...but from what I remember of the guys who got girls in highschool...alchohol :D
 

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This works fvcking awesomely!

Me and my chick-wing used it to establish rapport with complete strangers , including several bartenders/bouncers.

I have this game to thank for free drinks all night. Hasn't seemed to work for me getting girls yet though, i turn into the 'entertaining' guy and completely blow it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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