"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aren't there any HBs who just want a nice quiet relationship at home?

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You need some friends man. You don't have to be 100% excitement like some guys say on here, but do something to keep you from going crazy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The question is, what kind of relationship do you want?

If you find a good looking woman with her head screwed on right, she will be turned off by such boring lifestyle. Even if she does remain faithful and in the relationship, she will not be attracted to you.

Soon enough she would learn to despise you. As soon as that occurs, she's going to start looking for other men.

It's just a natural reaction.

Are there any women out there who will stay with a man no matter what? Of course there are!

But these women are probably very insecure. They will settle for mediocrity in everything INCLUDING your relationship.

You want a woman who challenges you. Who tells you what you need to improve. This in my mind is the ONLY reason to have a relationship besides the bonus of constant sex.

A woman who is "just there" does nothing to help you improve, thus your boring life will never improve.

Laziness is a very bad character trait.
 
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LonesomeLoser said:
From what I read on here it sounds like every good looking woman wants a guy who has gone rock climbing and parachuting. Aren't there any good looking women (good looking for me I mean maybe a 6+, I don't care as much about the face as long as she's not overweight), who are just looking for a nice quiet relationship at home? Go to work, come home, have dinner, watch tv go to bed and do it again the next day? Maybe once in a while go to the zoo or to the theater to see a movie? You know, homebodies. Is it a turn off to ALL halfway cute women if a guy just wants a relationship and a nice quiet life at home?
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How miserably boring that sounds, sorry, but I am the adventurous type and I don't do well with women at all either, so I don't think that has a lot to do with it. In fact, I used to think I was at a disadvantage as an ADHD type of guy because I figured most women did in fact want the white picket fence, boring 8-5 lifestyle that would drive me bat****.
 
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