"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you better focused when you don't jack it before going out?

jackhamma

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Something I noticed is that went I don't crank one out and I actually go a day or two without doing it...then I go out, my approaching is on point and aggressive...is it because my test is built up and hormones are raging??

I jack it, then go out, and I'm sorta slow to approach etc....


What do you think? Any science behind it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Serenity

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I'm better focused when I know what I want and don't give a fvck about anything else. Learn to find things to be pissed at and re-focus that anger into what you want, anger is a great motivator when under control. I'm sure you can find a sh!tload of things in society to piss you off.

Then again I sometimes have to jack it to discharge anger, it piles up so quickly in me. I'm furiously jacking it, haha :D
 

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More focused and aggressive with everything in life when I have a full load. I notice it after about 2 days.
 

gravityeyelids

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Yes. Absolutely. After 3 or so days I become fearless and unstoppable.

Although as you approach the week mark... 1) You may come off as thirsty and desperate, 2) 6's suddenly turn into 9's, especially when drinking, 3) I start to worry about blowing my top like 10 seconds into sex (although you can usually recover pretty quickly)

I've found that once a week to release stress it optimal. Sunday or Monday to be specific because then you're nice and hungry when you go out on the weekend, and you can use monday and tues to "recover" your inner rage. Nearly every time i've gone out after at least 2-3 days of refraining, i do very well in terms of pulling.

In practice, however, i find it VERY difficult to restrain myself to only fapping once a week, but when you do, you feel great. Also, in general, i find it gives you more energy and drive.
 
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