"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you a player?

verysuave

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If other chicks heard rumors that you are a player, would this be a good thing or a bad thing when it comes to gaming women? Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's only bad if all the girls you are rumor to have fvck are hippos.
 

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Whilst I agree that it makes you known as being popular with ladies and you will be tested it also shows that you are afraid of love.
Essentially what is a defintion of a player: Someone that is afraid of love so has to play women in order to hide his insecurites and fear of falling for a woman and loving her solely.

AND being known as a player makes a lot of women put their "guard up" no girl wants to be hurt so immediately when they meet you and have heard you are a player they will put up a "wall" and make it hard for you to break it down aswell as a lot of girls prefer to stay AWAY from the player guys.

One last point some girls actually like a player because they see him as a challenge and they try to "tame" the player.
 
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