Are you a good looking guy who got dumped by a chick below your standards?

[Thomas94305]

I've had similar things.. I know I'm not a 10, but I am very fit, work out, dress fashionable. I walked into a coffee shop today, and women turned to look at me.. not bragging, just trying to calibrate who I am. I'm also a rAFC, so dating is hit and miss.

But, think about where you were in your AFC days. Let's say you're a 5, and you see someone who you think is a 10. An AFC thinks.. no way she'll go out with me.. that bytch. OK, now I'm angry at her. I'm dissing on her first chance I get.... and she did absolutely nothing wrong to you. Oh wait, maybe that wasn't you.. just my own confession

Don't read too much into it. It got you down a little, it does get me down too, even though I'm aware of it. It's an example of how a neg works, but from the opposite side.

Personally, I'm a little guarded around this kind of person, guess my ego can be fragile. But, I'll keep the lines open for a friendship, as long as this isn't her habit. And, I just put my energies where needed.. sarging, other women, etc.

 

[BluEyes]

Yeah, like...Orlando Bloom, Johnny Depp, and Keanu Reeves are skinny good-looking guys

You call them good looking guys? They all look like pretty boys. If they had no claim to fame, girls would call them "cute", not "hot". The only reason they're called "good looking guys" by many people is because of their facial bone structure. There's alot more to looks than cheekbones and jawlines buddy. Let's try to dodge the looks debate here, so I'll stop talking about it.

In my books, a guy with a good amount of muscle on his frame commands far more respect than a guy who looks like he might break himself with any physical exertion. But that's just my opinion...

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Somebody talked about how ugly/fat girls protect their ego's by rejecting guys who they percieve as "above" them. They probably think that hot guys are looking to use them in some way and have some hidden agenda with them, because to them, nobody could possibly find them attractive...It's common for people with low self-esteem.

 

[Jay Jay]

Yes.

No.

hehe.

Actually...

One night I was in Canberra for work, myslef and a workmate, this dude with a 10 gf, went out for a few beers to what was meant to be the coolest club in town.

Every guy in the club were losers and most of the girls ugly. We joked about how we were the biggest mack daddies in the city.

I went to the toilet. There was this long line of girls waiting to get into the ladies. The Mens were empty. I was like, "hey ladies, come in here, there's plenty of room."

This total UG goes, "f*ck off d*ckhead!"

That was without a doubt the highlight of the night. Me and my workmate still joke about it.

Nothing like getting shot down by an UG.

JJ

 

[persiangino]

Usually the abnormally ugly b!tches do this to the percieved player (aka alpha male) to get his attention for they know he would not give them the time of day anyway. At this point, one must just laugh.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Yup. This happened to me.

Don't talk to the ***** anymore. Now I dump before getting dumped. Its amazing what this little technique can do for your self-esteem.

 

[TsubiS]

Ahahah SIF!

I do the rejecting :kick:

 

[jonwon]

You've gone out with super hot chicks but then there was this chick who wasnt a pretty rejected you. Ever happened to you?

So by stating this we can assume.
Your a GL guy.
You actually wash and dont stink.
You wear decent threads and not rags.
You can string two words together.
Your not a negative person or full of depressing ****.
She actually liked your personailty or in other words, you both connected.

E.t.c and E.t.c

To state a girl dumped you and is a little off, just because your a GL guy, is rather a simple question, the answer is there is none, since where missing the other 99.9% of the situation.

So what a GL gets dumped by an average women, bug deal, average women get GL guys also and just cos a guy is GL still does not mean he is good material he maybe a total dork/ars*hole/mentalcase/stinkes/has not IQ/no charm/no witt/boring/moody/depressed/or they just did not get on and she was the first to see it was a wasted venture.

See where i am going.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...So what a GL gets dumped by an average women, bug deal, average women get GL guys also and just cos a guy is GL still does not mean he is good material he maybe a total dork/ars*hole/mentalcase/stinkes/has not IQ/no charm/no witt/boring/moody/depressed/or they just did not get on and she was the first to see it was a wasted venture.

See where i am going.

:yes: Looks will only get you noticed. Ever wonder why all the "Looks are most important" proponents seldom post about having LTRs? Although I am assuming that they are good looking themselves. Makes you wonder, doesn't it?

 

[jonwon]

:yes: Looks will only get you noticed. Ever wonder why all the "Looks are most important" proponents seldom post about having LTRs? Although I am assuming that they are good looking themselves. Makes you wonder, doesn't it?

Indeed but i think if this turned into a discussion it as a great danger of falling into the 'are looks important' catagory.

This i will leave it there, i was going to write something else but i though better of it.

 

[joao185]

how if aproaching

hello friends my name is john, my istant message is [email protected]
i have problem in relation aproaching womens beautiful .
in my university have a beautiful women , i ám interesting for your yes is your face
the problem is
how aproaching
what speaking
what comportament

i have varius books , of derek vitalio ,david de angelo
but i not have action for aproaching , you undestand friends !!!!!!!!!!!!!
how win this???
i 'am from Brasil,( RIO DE JANEIRO) ,every day much women in every adress, streets
but i am not action,coragem , for aproaching of women

good bye
contact me
[email protected]

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...This i will leave it there, i was going to write something else but i though better of it.

Awwwww c'mon.... We haven't had one of those flaming threads in at least two, maybe three days!

 

[Mjazz]

Quick question, Why do adults always tell me that I am good looking? Its weird, grown men and older women always tell me that. I guess I get pretty good attention from the girls at my school. Does this mean I am good looking? Or does this mean that I meet a lot of pedophiles and crap?

 

[persiangino]

No, the girls look at you cause you either have a big nose or a big head. Since pedophiles like these features, you will garner alot of attention from them.