"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are women with certain careers attracted to you?

Atom Smasher

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I've noticed that whatever company I work with, the Human Resources woman is almost always highly attracted to me. The pattern is unmistakable.

There are several companies that I contract with and with each one, the HR girls flirt with me like mad, married or not. They constantly look for reasons to interact with me and they LOVE it when I give them attention.

I've often wondered why this is... I mean why Human Resources? Have any of you noticed that women with a certain job or career tend to be attracted to you?

Since I'm too close to the situation to have perspective, can anyone hazard a guess as to why the HR girls want to get "Atomized"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First please tell what is your profession?
When compared to them, are they on below level of you or above?
I have notived that HR/Recruiters act little friendly only to get that appreciation from you. Later they can claim that employee joining comission like that.
How many HR;s have you laid
 

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Younger chicks who work in downtown retail shops for rich people.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Hippie chicks love farmers.
The hippie chicks I went to school with were crazy about the organic farmer guys. I forgot what they called it when a bunch of people lived on a farm a grew stuff as a collective.

All I know is that those people would come take at the farmers market on campus...and they'd sometimes play their hippie jam improve stuff.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jaylan said:
The hippie chicks I went to school with were crazy about the organic farmer guys.
I have seen a lot of scruffy hippie farmers with hot, petite, hippie-chick wives. Usually the wife has a job, because farming doesn't pay sh!t, and the husband sits at home, smokes weed, watches the kids, and occasionally does farm work.

I've gotten laid both off having a greenhouse full of plants, as well as selling tomatoes off the back of a pick-up truck with my family. Both of those are sweaty, dirty, non-glamourous, poor-person things to be doing. Some of the more Barbie-looking women look at me like I am a garbageman; like me trying to talk to them would be horribly uncomfortable. But hippie chicks, a lot of them "hippie lite" without the BO and body hair, seem to be all about it.

That's why I can't stand all the excuses I see on sosuave for not being able to get laid, especially statements like "well I just live in the wrong city" or "I'm not rich." Hell, I don't live in any city. I'm the opposite of rich. But I can see buying signs. And that lets me bang hippie chicks with ease, instead of dwelling on Barbie being stuck up and the unfairness of life.

For example, if a woman by herself is in your driveway and says "is that your house?" it means she wants to come in. And why would she want to come in? If you saw the buying sign, you know the answer to that question.

And when I'm at a market selling a woman tomatoes, and she is telling me about all the ways she prepares them, it means she wants to show me in person. So I'll cut her off because I'm too busy to talk and tell her to give me her number so I can talk to her later. Then we skip the date bs, she cooks me dinner, and we fvck. That's all made possible by seeing the buying sign.

Women are subtle. Most men are oblivious. Guys who think there are no opportunities with women are most likely just missing the buying signs.
 
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