"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are women really this gullible?

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I looked at a documentary that showed Nigarian scammers write emaills to lonely Canadian women, and after a few exchanges tell her that they love her, and get like $ 300,000 from them easily without even meeting her face to face. I'm like, really? Is people's experience here that women are really that rich and are going to give you money like that if you tell her you love her?

The name of the documentary is Cybercrimes by Ben Hammersley, and is in Netflix (they are pulling it out next week which is why I am watching the series).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I looked at a documentary that showed Nigarian scammers write emaills to lonely Canadian women, and after a few exchanges tell her that they love her, and get like $ 300,000 from them easily without even meeting her face to face. I'm like, really? Is people's experience here that women are really that rich and are going to give you money like that if you tell her you love her?

The name of the documentary is Cybercrimes by Ben Hammersley, and is in Netflix (they are pulling it out next week which is why I am watching the series).
I'm sure there are men who are equally stupid, in fact i know there are
 

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Yeah these scams are even more common targeting men.

I’m amazed they work. If a guy can talk $60,000 out of a string of about 10 women, I should be able to talk my way into a good-hearted night of raunchiness far more often.
 

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I looked at a documentary that showed Nigarian scammers write emaills to lonely Canadian women, and after a few exchanges tell her that they love her, and get like $ 300,000 from them easily without even meeting her face to face. I'm like, really? Is people's experience here that women are really that rich and are going to give you money like that if you tell her you love her?

The name of the documentary is Cybercrimes by Ben Hammersley, and is in Netflix (they are pulling it out next week which is why I am watching the series).
1. there are less rich women than men, often rich women have it only because they married rich guy.
2. imo men are way more naive to pay for nothing (example buy 300 usd ring before first sex)
3. i dont believe in it unless the rich woman was 1. over 50 2. ugly 3. fat 4. doesnt understand she could get sex from tinder for free 5. very lone and desperate 6. ******ians sending photos of some black models instead of their 7. still, even with all those points, no woman is this stupid to give 300 000 USD to someone for just texting with her. women are into money a lot
 

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Okay, anyone THIS stupid to get scammed out of $300,000 deserves to get scammed like that. Man or woman.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is a lot of MONEY to be made on gullible and desperate people lol.

Just look at the PUA book industry.

LOL.
 
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