"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are these pranks "rock, paper, scissor" k-close real or fake?

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There are allot of videos out there on youtube of a prankster asking random women to play rock, paper, scissors and getting intense make-out sessions and groping. This has included scenes where the girl was accompanied by her boyfriend, parents, etc...... Think this is something that can be readily be searched online.

I was listening to some of the reactions of people who have seen these videos. While many think they are faked, some of them, believe they are not faked but real. Particularly the reactions you get when the boyfriend is pissed and walks away or has that "look" of shock and disappointment their girlfriend would let them down like that.

If necessary I can post some of these videos. My question is has anyone tried out these type of openers (i.e. lets play a games of heads and tails, heads, we make out, trails, etc..... or let's play rock, paper and scissors)?

As for the naysayers of these type of videos, some PUA's have tried it out and find that women, being cold approached, are totally hesitant to entertain any sort of game like that. The women seem to go into it too fast and willing that it appears that the whole thing is staged. Others point to the look at shock and disgust in the SO's faces and suggest that it looks like someone was genuinely hurt in the process and therefore it can't really be fake.

I'll include a video of the actual prank here:

A random video where a youtuber believes these videos are real or are unsure:

A random video where a youtube shows it's a fake
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lipwGHZj1jI

One rebuttal that actresses could be used is that it's coincidental since in a given population, any actress could be randomly approached for a prank, or that not all of the women involved can be proven to be actresses.

Other people have tried these type of pranks out with less dramatic results:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nRdWIDtkgsQ

This PUA is suggesting for this to work is to ASSUME she wants to play and say 'Let's play' and start the game. Being a permission boy doesn't work because if you give her an out to say no and don't push it it won't work.

On the surface this sounds like a load of fun because it's so crazy so it may be a great confidence booster in terms of making a fun approach. In most cases you are looking at a peck on the lips or on the cheek but not a make-out session / groping session like the prank invasion videos and think this is a more realistic expectation. It's hard to believe any self-respecting women would open herself like that to a random stranger off the street.

Opening up the floor on this. Has anyone tried this opener and kiss / make-out close to random women for approach confidence building?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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