"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HeyPachuco!

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Puahate.com

Trolls of the community or legitimate keyboard jockeys? Man, there's one guy exposing the hell out of AFC Adam on there, gets you wondering.

There's even a few threads on So Suave.

What is this about, just random curiosity?

To say the least, I'm disappointed in what I've read and seen so far (cough) Brad.P and fellow Londoner - AFCAdam (cough). :moon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think the PUA industry is a sham too, or at least similar to the infomercial industry.

I don't think a truly admirable guy would choose his career to be PUA and try to make a living from it

but thats just me
 
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Wow...thats just too much. I'm no big fan of PUA's and all of that..but browsing through that site, it seems these guys have really gotten to deep into the whole "discrediting" PUAs and seem to have fallen in to Anti PUA worship. I guess it lives up to what it says on the tin, PUAHate. I got better things to do with my time then to hate on some other guys who I feel are beneath me, I don't go around starting sites called lower class criminal hate. Cause really, I got better things to do. Maybe they don't feel these guys are beneath them. I dunno. It just seems lame to me.
 
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They are sort of exposing the incessant self promotion and creation of a glamour and "we are the cool guys, be like us" aura that some pick up communities have
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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