"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are the chinless less attractive?

ThisNThat

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I have noticed that people, especially men, without chins, are less attractive and probably completely unattractive when it's a men with no chin or no pronounced jawline.

Take a look at this woman's before and after photo after she's had surgery...



Michael Cera Scott....chinless?



Have you seen a dude without a chin pull in the ladies?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigneil

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Indeed, a strong jawline is one of the most important signs a man can have. The stereotypical cartoon of a handsome man always has an exaggerated jaw.

Part of it is bone structure, but most of it is muscle tone and low body fat percentage.

I've had a chiseled jaw at times but in the winter when I don't work out my jaw line literally vanishes into my neck. Often we focus on how our eyes, skin and hair look and overlook this critical element.

 
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