Are most Healthy-weight Average looking men struggling to get dates with Healthy-weight Average women?

[Identikit_Radiohead]

Firstly, i'm not looking for a Hot Smoking Babe or a Model that's a 7+. Just want to make that clear.

I'm a healthy weight average guy looking for my equal - a healthy weight average woman. I do gym, kettlebells, cycling. Just looking for a woman with an average face who looks after herself, healthy BMI and isn't fat. She doesn't have to be a gym bunny and eat rabbit food - just need to take care of herself and not be a fat slob.

I've tried several dating apps but have 0 luck getting likes or messages from healthy/slim average women. The only women that say "hi" are Obese, slob types. I've tried different photo's and bios but nothing has worked. Meeting women offline has not worked either. I've tried badminton clubs, gym, cycling club, reading groups, history groups, slimming world, meeting singles at singles bars. I've had no luck.

Does this mean i'm ugly. Am i cooked? Are other guys experiencing this? Should I try the passport route... this seems like the last avenue available.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Does this mean i'm ugly.

No.

m i cooked?

Likely. Most men who don’t meet women organically (work, kept seeing each other, through friends, school) are cooked in a sense. They must resort to creating situations (eg, cold approach, apps, passport broism, etc).

That’s why there is so much over-analysis of this stuff.