Are girls impressed by how many friends you have?

[tmac]

I was wondering about this. I used to have a big crew of friends, but many have relocated to new cities or countries and I've only realy gort a few left in my hometown now. It bums me out....I'm 29 and other than my grilfriend....I don't have a crew of guys to hang out with like I used to.

My new girlfriend never got a chance to meet all group of friends because they moved away before we started dating. The last guy she dated had a bunch of friends and was they did stuff with his friends all the time and it seems like they had a blast. I can't really show her the same good time with a bunch of people since I no longer have my crew. Do girls care about how many friend syou have?

ANy suggetions on how I can meet and develop new friendships? I was so easy in UNiversity, but it's was difficult to stay in touch with everyone, especially begin farther away so now I'm out of the loop. Any ideas on how I can get more friends?

Tmac

 

[Qmanchoo]

What I've found based on my experience is that A. It depends on the girl (Is she in the relationship because she thinks you're Mr. Popular or because she's into a less superficial part of your personality or character?) B. You can have a good time without having lots of friends, but going out with a group makes it a lot easier to have fun.

First, it's good to have "more of a life" than your partner. Some people may argue but my results are very different when I do than when I don’t.

Going deeper into that. First, she cares about whether or not you have a life shes thinks is cool, and if you have one you're in the neutral zone (she wont look down on you). Second, if you have a life that's interesting to her and she can get involved in it's a major plus, especially if as a result she enjoys her life more you're high on the plus side. (she will look up to you)

However, if you have a life and she thinks that it's "dorky" she will look down on you..even if it's more active than hers...in that case you have a major interests conflict and she needs to get the boot.

So obviously one has a more powerful and appealing result than the other and depends a bit on finding the right girl.

But one piece of advice that rings so true is my head that was given to me a long time ago by a friend "Girls initially love you for the unique things about you and later, if you keep her intrigued with them, fall in love with you as a Man"

- He's so cool - I love coolness to some reason!
- He's going to grad school he so motivated - He's so motivated and strong in personality!
- He's so popular - He has good social skills and other people want hum, must be for a good reason!
- He's so funny - He makes me feel good all the time
- He's witty - keeps me laughing
- He's interesting - keeps me stimulated
- He's fun - excitement turns me on!
- He's so smart - Brains turn women on, big-time. not the "12312 X 13412 / 23423 = X" brain, the "socially I'm aware of how to handle people and get what I want and know what to do in the moment, I'm a man and make necessary decisions when they need to be made"

I've NEVER heard a girl say "wow he's good with money, shows up on time, and has a ROTH IRA, I want to rip his pants off a **** him raw!!"

Anyway this ended up longer than I wanted hope it helped.

 

[chance]

if a girl cares about how many friends you have she's a fukhead.

 

[dadmonson]

Girls from my school mostly go for the AFCs for some reasons.

 

[undesputable]

i think Qmanchoo laid it out really well...

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by dadmonson
Girls from my school mostly go for the AFCs for some reasons.

keep telling yourself that

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by dadmonson
Girls from my school mostly go for the AFCs for some reasons.

or maybe you're still an afc ...

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yeah, edit: i read BI's post, and i think you don't know what afc is. afc's can get girls, and some are even great, social, outgoing guys. but when it comes to a relationship, they become pvssy-whipped.

so, again, i think you're just hating dude...

love the game

btw, i would like to see this...seriously, i dare someone to:

Originally posted by Black_Italian
go up to girls slap them in the face and say hey b*tch suck my d*ck fu*k me you stink you skank crack hoe.

:crackup:

 

[Black_Italian]

theres a diffrence between a guy that doesnt take no Sh*t but is still polite and and AFC.

People confuse the info on this site to often. This website is not telling you to go up to girls slap them in the face and say hey b*tch suck my d*ck fu*k me you stink you skank crack hoe.

If you want a clearer picture of what type of a person attracts women try reading David Deangelo Double Your Dating.........
theres to many key boad jockys here giving people the wrong idea.

 

[jprjrjr]

A 29 year old guy thinking he still needs a "crew" to be cool?

What's wrong with this picture?