Are all girls without fathers screwed up?

[st_99]

she was inconsistent, frequently lying and using all kinds of mental tactics to put me down at every occasion. Besides, she hated her father; and she had 10-step siblings from a number of subsequent marriages of her parents ...

AT times; she made me feel like a worthless creep and she walked all over me. BUT I have the dignity to admit that it was MOSTLY my fault EVEN THOUGH she's the goddess of BPDs according to all this psychiatric mumbo-jambo you guys are parroting here ...

Why? Why would you say that? I don't care what you may or may not have
done to this girl. Any "normal" girl would just tell you to f*ck off and walk.

Even If you were that bad, she wouldn't have the skill set to make you feel like a worthless creep and walk all over you. She would cry and wonder why you were acting they way you were and leave. IMO.

 

[backbreaker]

make no mistake, there are issues and then there are ISSUES.


the girl asking why I won't basically rape her while she's shivering from alcohol poisoning as I stated, is not in the same ball park with the girl I was talking about in AA who basically was somewhat clingy and would get defensive when my plans, did not include her, even though I lived with another woman. While, it's somewaht of a putt off, it's in the realm of being a normal ****ing human being, just one who has obviously caught feelings.

there is nothing normal about a woman asking why you didn't force yourself on her. that's when you run. i had a girl one day pull up bestiality on my laptop, that's not normal ****. get the **** out. or, a woman the first thing she tells you about every guy she dated, is the car the drove (had one of those before). you be in the game long enough you pick up on certain things that are normal and are not normal or you can just bump your head enough times like I did.

i remmeber when i first met my girl and i caught her sniffing coke in my bathroom, even posted about it here. got alot of flack for not kicking her. but the way i see it, doing coke, is not a caracter defect. it happens, some people lke to party. no more so than someone having a drink. i am a recovering addict and i told her that if we are to keep seeing each ohter, this can't be in my house becuase this.. does things to me lol. and you know what, never had a problem since. people make the mistake, of thinking someone who uses drugs has a problem or has a character defect and could not be more wrong. a person has a problem when they are forced to stop and can't. people drink, people smoke weed, but if you know you have a drug test coming up in 1 month and you can't stop smoking to pass the drug test, you know what then you might have an issue.

 

[Lateralus]

This. From my experience, women without father figures don't know how to be alone. They need a man's approval.

Exactly. But the consequence in a relationship is an inequality in proportions (father/daughter instead of partners) and the burden that comes with your father role. I personally don't really get aroused by the whole 'father/daughter' idea.

 

[theunicornfairy]

I wouldn't say all of them. But I will tell you this, if a woman says she hates her father. Run. Run as fast as you can.[/QUOTE

+1000

Learned this the hard way.

I find this to be somewhat offensive. I am 17 and I've gone about 17 years without a father. Haha. I have had countless "father-figures" but of course nothing was substantial. I feel like i am the father of the house in a way. I view a father as being level-headed, stable, powerful, and non-emotional. I feel like that is who i am. I could see why a girl who has grown up without a father could be stereotyped as needy or clingy. and perhaps i am. But i wouldnt really know because i dont involve myself in relationships. Tonight, i have realized why. I probably do have some psychological issues. But i feel like someone in the world can understand it and would still treat me as a human being. I just would like those of you who speak negatively towards girls who might have some psychological issues to realize that it really is psychological. It's not something you can really control. I understand there's different viewpoints for everything, but I'm just asking you to see it from mine.

 

[LiveFreeX]

My wife's father died when she was young but she still turned out fairly well... chalk that one up to early China though...

This b1tch however, I'm pretty sure just came from a single (by choice) mother... betcha.

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNDY2MDUzODMy.html

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNTQ5NDczNTQw.html

cause any father that would let his daughter do that should be hung up by his balls.

Disgusting.