antidonjuan
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What is the appropriate age for dating? I am 15 and am I too young to date? What are the benefits and side-effects of dating this young?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Appropriate Age for Dating
- Thread starter antidonjuan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Personally,
I think you're never to young to date
as long as it's not your first priority
and hey, the earlier the more experienced
I think you're never to young to date
as long as it's not your first priority
and hey, the earlier the more experienced
LostAndConfused
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Don't date until you are married.
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Wow, get this guy a beer! He is LostAndConfused! Literally!LostAndConfused said:
Date around age 12-13.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
chubbycheeks720
Don Juan
A date is when you take a person from one location to another. A date can involve a movie or walking with her to lunch. It might be weird but if u really think about it, technically its true.
There is no age limit on dating. What is dating? Dating is hanging out with a person your interested in, You are dating her to see if you really like her or not.
Pros of dating at a young age.
- Experience. when you go out on a date for the first time, you get butterflies in your stomach. to rid those butterflies you have to have experience.
- Usually word goes around the school whenever you date someone...or do anything really. So that means you are already pre-selected and it will increase your social value.
Cons
I can't really think of anything...unless you cant drive and dont have enough money. Theres plenty of other ways to go out on a date. Invite her over to her house, or go to hers. walk with her at school or ask her out to a dance.
There is no age limit on dating. What is dating? Dating is hanging out with a person your interested in, You are dating her to see if you really like her or not.
Pros of dating at a young age.
- Experience. when you go out on a date for the first time, you get butterflies in your stomach. to rid those butterflies you have to have experience.
- Usually word goes around the school whenever you date someone...or do anything really. So that means you are already pre-selected and it will increase your social value.
Cons
I can't really think of anything...unless you cant drive and dont have enough money. Theres plenty of other ways to go out on a date. Invite her over to her house, or go to hers. walk with her at school or ask her out to a dance.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
No . 15-16 years old is the best age to start geting dates .
But i think you're a bit young for cold approaches on street .
But i think you're a bit young for cold approaches on street .
As early as you can.
EXPERIANCE
All you people need it. I need it. We all need it. The people who date young are usually the ones who end up as naturals. If you leave it to you are older you WILL regret it. You won't have any experiance and therefore wont know what to do, and it will just keep on building if you keep getting older without having any experiance with girls.
EXPERIANCE
All you people need it. I need it. We all need it. The people who date young are usually the ones who end up as naturals. If you leave it to you are older you WILL regret it. You won't have any experiance and therefore wont know what to do, and it will just keep on building if you keep getting older without having any experiance with girls.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
the earlier the better. 15 isnt young at all anyway I think.
Your dating is going to be more casual than how adults date. Your obviously not going to be picking her up in your car or having her over for a romantic dinner but more like going to the movies, hanging out at the park or the pool.
I remember one time when i was about 15 I rode my bike in the rain to this girls house so we could "hang out or something"
All this practice you get now will pay off tenfold
Your dating is going to be more casual than how adults date. Your obviously not going to be picking her up in your car or having her over for a romantic dinner but more like going to the movies, hanging out at the park or the pool.
I remember one time when i was about 15 I rode my bike in the rain to this girls house so we could "hang out or something"
All this practice you get now will pay off tenfold
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.