Approaching For Dummies

[Supero Masculus]

Ok, i know that this subject has been pretty well covered but i'm still seeing people asking questions about approaching like, "Should i approach her when.." Or "what should i say to this chick if..." Basicly a whole lot of confused guy looking for answers.

Well now that my posting has been justified i shall begin.

Experiance is the ultimate teacher. The best thing you can do for yourself is to gain valueable expreriance by approaching when ever you get the impulse of the desire to approach a chick. Yes, anytime you sit there and think, "Maybe i should make a move... Nah! i'll do it sometime else!" you should always do the approach. Always. Why? simply put is becuase you got nothing better to do and if you do then you got no excuse. Thats right, no excuse. anything that sounds like an excuse is not gonna help you at all. Having a bad day? Not wanting to screw up / get rejected? Well if oyur having a bad day then a good approach will make you feel better. And not wanting to screw up!? WTF!? isn't screwing up the way we learn!? If you where learning to ride a bike and you fell and never got back up cause you didn't want to screw up then you would be missing out on a great experiance.

Now, you may think i'm crazy but i don't give a ****. But being rejected doesn't really hurt at all. Maybe a quick sting but thats it. I find that it is easier to approach if its a dare or a showing of dominance. Basicly if one of your dudes dares you to go talk to a HB 10 then go do it as a showing of you dominance and pride. If she gives gives you the finger and tells you to **** off oh well, your dudes will be like, "Haha you got showed!!" And youll be like, "Yah, at least i got balls!" And if she talks to you and shows a little IL then your dudes will be like, "OMG!! You are immortal!!" Ok thats a little extream but thats basicly how it goes.

How do i get good with the ladies? I'm glad you asked, again, experiance is the best way. Trust me, i wasn't ever this smooth with the ladies before. and if you where to tell me i'd be where i was today i'd be like, "Ok, take your medication!!" But here i am smooth as ever with a long way to go still.

Before you can even think about approaching you gotta accept the oh so great risk of being shot down by a soft harmless girl. Ya whos the wissy pansy now? You or the chick? Don't let it be you! Your better than that! So just approach and post your results on this thread. Success? Great! post it! Crash and burn? Perfect! post it on here so we can help eachother!

Just remember, approaching = learning & learning = approaching.

Happy hunting!

 

[Supero Masculus]

PART II.

The ultimate methods of the approach

Here is where a lot of AFCs get screwed. They fail to realize that there are no "ultimate methods" just a bunch of mind state boosters and a few pointers. Maybe there are some exeptions that i have never heard of, i doubt that there is a full blown perfect method. So, there is no perfect method. What then!? Well what has always worked for me is to just find a target, approach the target, talk naturally about something you notice around you. For example, one day i had this huge ass report to finish so i stayed after school with my partners. So we were sitting in the library on the computers when besides me sits this good looking latino chick. So shes doing the same report as me so i start talking ot her about how crappy it was and stuff and she responded fine and we had a little conversation (i would have carried it further if i hadn't had to write my report) so i ended it.

"Whats so great about that!?" you ask? well thats just it, there is nothing so great about it. The only things that where of note where,

a) I targeted her and made up my mind that i would approach
b) I talked to her about a relivant subject
c) I Ended it, not her (important cuase she doesn't leave out of boredom or that you don't run out of shyt to talk about.)

Another thing, don't worry about stalling! I hear so much crap on these forums about stalling and shyt like that. but in reallity its not that hard to keep the ladies interested in a convorsation. Runing low on topics? Easy just use the weather!! Seriously i use the weather all the time, how? simple. Most people think that the weather is a boring subject, it is. but if you say something like, "Damn, the weather was crappy all week, i miss the sun so i can go do (insert outdoor pastime here)." Most of the time she'll agree with you in one form or another, so then you can ask, "What do you like to do in better weather?" She will tell you and if it is somwthing you can relate to then great! if it's not then play it into another topic like, Her: "I really like to bungie jump when the weather is better!" You: "How thats nuts!! Other than bugie jumping whats the craziest thing you've done?"

See? You can totaly open them up on a topic as boring as weather. Its not as difficult as they say it is! So go approach some hot ones! And post your success and failures on this thread. And being that this is my first tip post any feed back would be greatly appreciated.

 

[fezz]

dude, are you one of the experienced members of this site, but only on a different sn?? Because it says you registered two days ago and now have 45 posts. Thats insane man. Have you just been really bored the past two days or somethin?? Anyways, I like the advice man. And you're right, if you dont go for the approach the first time you think about approaching her, then it just gets that much harder the next time. And if you dont approach right off the bat, you are just hittin yourself in the balls.

 

[Supero Masculus]

No i'm actually a new member here. I have been checking this out for like half a year and have tried alot of this so i know my shyt. New to the site, not the game. About the being bored, i'll just say maybe.... Actually i have just been wanting to contibute to the people of this site. Plus i got a really cool screen name that i want to post everywhere . And thanks for the compliments on the post!

 

[fezz]

thats about how I was when I came here. I read all the crap before I ever started posting

 

[Supero Masculus]

Thats cool, it seems to help if you know most of your shyt before you become a member here so you don't look like a total AFC.