Approach Women Tips

[Public_eNemy]

Approach women is a topic that guys generally don't like talking about, because they think it "every men should know how to do it", and so that shouldn't be discussed.
But actually, to most guys, approaching women isn't that easy and natural: they face fear of approach, approach anxiety and fear of rejection.
Having studied and learned myself how to be successful on that, Ill show you some interesting approach women tips:

First of all: Approaching women is normal. Period. You aren't molesting them or doing anything bad. It's just what guys should do. It's estimated that beautiful women get approached like 10 times each day. 300 times a month!
So it's time for you to face it and assume you're talking to them for a reason. There's no need to feel embarrassed. Everybody does it.

Another common problem is that guys fear rejection. Let me tell you this: in all my years of testing pickup stuff, I NEVER received words meaner than "no" or "I have a boyfriend". They won't go and say "Get out of here you ****ing loser" or things like that. And people around you aren't going to laugh at you. Remember: It's normal, everybody does it. You just have to have this mentality: No response that this woman gives me is gonna change who I am.

You are now probably thinking: Alright, everybody does it, but how, exactly, do I approach women successfully? Well… You should really try to stand out of the crowd and be more creative than every other guy who approached her that day. How do you do it? ****y funny, taught by David Deangelo, is my favorite technique. It basically comunicates that you are secure of yourself and that you are used to approaching women, so you are not like all the other losers who came of with lines like "sup hottie".
Some example of ****y+funny style:

You: Tonight is your lucky night
Her: Oh really? Why is that?
You: Because you finally got to go out with me
Her: Sure! <if you said it right, she's going to be smiling by now!>
You: But no touching - *I* do all the touching!

Maybe you are thinking: Cmon, with real women that would never work, she would probably slap you. Actually, its the opposite: Women love to be teased, and that's what it communicates: You are a confident man who is very comfortable with yourself and can make her laugh.


Discuss!

 

[Public_eNemy]

thanks for the feedback

 

[duckbutt]

good points!!! i need to start approaching girls too... im tired of just sitting around thinking how hot they r

 

[Aprenti$playa&pimp]

good points!!! i need to start approaching girls too... im tired of just sitting around thinking how hot they r

x2 man

 

[Jukeboxhero]

Any other approach suggestions?

 

[window]

I like what Rollo has written about this...I like to pay attention to what's going on in the environment at the time (conversations, body language, something out of the ordinary). Not just with girls that you think are ok either. I reckon it's better to open in an indirect manner but direct can be ok to if the situations allows it.

For example today I saw a couple of ladies staring intently up at this building that had a bit smoke coming out of the roof. I could tell what they were thinking so as I walked past them I just casually remarked "is it going to burn down ?" They laughed and started talking. There was no game, but it brought something interesting to their day.

Sometimes you can be more direct. For example once at a club I noticed this girl checking out her hair in a mirror (a lot). I went up to her later in the night and said "you have really nice hair...". She was stoked. No game, just a genuine complement. After that she was the one doing the esculating.

Another time at a ball I saw this HB8 at a table next to mine. I could tell she was bored. So I just leaned back and said "would you like to dance ?". She said no, I said no worries and left it. No game. Anyway three months later I'm at a party in the the middle of the bush around a large camp fire staring into the bottom of my beer glass when all of sudden this same girl comes bounding out of nowhere and sits down next to me and says "hey remember me you asked me to dance one time" (from 10 seconds of interaction 3 months ago). The rest is history.

Practice talking to anyone and everyone. No end games in mind. Use your powers of perception and the environment around you. Have the attitude that you can bring something positive into peoples lives instead of thinking what's in it for you. Be detached from the outcome.

A bonus is when you start becoming more aware of the environment around you your funny side tends to grow stronger as well.

Enjoy.