"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approach at work, no close.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good to see someone else posting FR's dude. Don't worry too much about opener, it's just something to open the set with and no opener is really lame. What matters a great deal more is what you're actually conveying when you open. Most of this was fluff talk though dude. If you really want to move things on though, cut the fluff and do something to hook her. Use C+F, neg her, tease her or just tell a story, so long as your conveying your personality to her. Once she's hooked and you'll know she's hooked when she's laughing at even the dumbest things you say, THEN you can start vibing with her and doing the fluff talk. Infact, if she's hooked and you're NOT vibing with her, she'll probably become disinterested. And overall, just work on having more fun with the girls in the sets and work on conveying your personality to her.

I'm still practicing some this stuff myself, but trust me the guy who I learned this all from knows what he's talking about and as I go more and more in field I start realizing that what he's saying works. Most people will tell you words are everything, but come on, I've gone up to a group of girls with "Ruff ruff!" before and gotten interest. Heck, only reason I didn't stay in that set is because I never vibed and thus became the dancing monkey.
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your stupid, her fiancee is DEAD. I doubt shes over him, and i doubt she will be anytime soon. You dont joke around and tease a girl whos husband-to-be died you retard, GTFO of here dude you have no idea what your talking about.
 
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Das, there was nothing wrong with how you approached this situation. It just so happens that you approached a woman that was emotionally damaged, and probably wouldn't have hooked up with you if you were the best pick-up artist in the world. I mean, her fiance died? Somebody you were with for multiple years, going to be your future husband, dead? That's some pretty heavy stuff. If my fiance died, I'd probably be a little hesitant to go out and meet some new people too.

I like how you asked her to go out to karaoke with you on the spot, because a lot of guys wouldn't have the balls to ask her out (nevermind talk to her). Keep up the good work and you will reap some serious benefits.
 
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