"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Apologies if this has been done before, but...

SynapsyS

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Post what you find really attractive in a girl.

Obviously, if you're out sarging, the first thing you have to go on is looks. I mean, we are all superficial, because we only approach, say 8's and above. However, people find different things attractive.

Me, i like a dark haired, green eyed, irish looking girl with a nice face. Body is whatever, but not fat, not anorexic.

Go, post :)

And hell, if there's uproar, post what you find attractive personality-wise if you don't want to be superficial ;)

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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looks, personality, and attitude, damn I like a bytch with that confident attitude stride, she can fvck your balls off.
 

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Japanese nationals who are cute as a button and have an outgoing friendly personality.
 

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A flat stomach and a genuine smile.

I've been leaning toward Filipinas lately, not sure why; followed closely by the freshly-scrubbed, still-slightly-innocent-looking types.

My FB is a 95-lb. rocker chick who has a toothy grin and a taut little tummy. She just dyed her hair fire engine red and pierced her ****oral hood. It promises to be a great winter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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