"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anyone reckon i've got the motivation to keep this up?

Raoul Duke

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Got 74 days till start Uni again, been doing this routine for the last weeks and still feel 100% motivated/determined:

Morning:

Wake up at 6.45am for 5.6 mile jog (takes roughly 40 mins).

Eat fruit and fibre for breakfast.

I then start work at 9am in an office so a lot of sitting during the day.

Midday (11am)

Eat 1 sandwich, usually chicken or ham.

Early Afternoon (2pm)

Eat other half of sandwich, again usually chicken or ham.

5pm, finish work head to gym:

5 mins Rowing machine, highest resistance (10)

15 mins Bike on a pre set course on highest reistance

10 mins Crosstrainer, pre set course on medium resistance.

2 miles treadmill (1mile fastest speed, no incline, last mile slow jog/fast week, then slowing down to a crawling pace)

Get home around 7pm, have main meal.

8pm:

I have some dumbells, a barbell and a weights bench where i do some basic lifting and sit ups.

11pm:

Bed.

Do you think i'll be able to maintain this for 74 days straight? If not do any of you have an ideas or methods they think would be suitable that would be just as effective?

Also, how much weight do you roughly guess i'll lose? I'm currently 5ft 9, 152 pounds.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Centaurion

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at 152lbs, i would rather try to put on some size.
 

affliction

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Do you think i'll be able to maintain this for 74 days straight?
Nobody here knows you. How could we possibly answer that?

If you don't think you'll be able to maintain this routine, then change it to something a little less demanding. For me personally, I didn't even worry about diet when I first started weight training. I just made sure I hit the gym every day after work. Once it became part of my schedule and was no longer a "hmm, should I go today?" type of thing, I got more serious about diets and routines and things like that.

Don't jump in too deep right off the bat or you might have trouble maintaining it.
 

Bradshaw

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I think that you should vary your routine. It isn’t so much a question of If you have the motivation to keep this up, but if you are pushing you body past its ability to recover. If you do the same routine every day, your body does not have enough time to rest and heal itself. You should also have one OFF day a week.
 
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