picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone own a made to measure suit? Do the women appreciate a guy wearing nice outfit for work and date??
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Only if it fits the venue. Nowadays, unless you work in the stereotypical white collar, board room business where that is the norm, suits in general aren't all that important. They come off as ostentatious unless you are attending an affair that merits it.Originally posted by picard
Has anyone own a made to measure suit? Do the women appreciate a guy wearing nice outfit for work and date??
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bespoke and MTM are slightly different things. Bespoke is done by hand by a tailor with your selection of materials and design; MTM could be done in a factory using a tailor or even a cutter's specs. Not that big of a difference.Originally posted by backbreaker
it's called a bespoke suit and I have 2, but the rest are just tailered to fit me
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.