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Anyone know this song's name?

diplomatic_lies

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I can't remember anything except bits and pieces:

A lyric goes, "If a wave shall fall, it would fall on you".

Another lyric goes, "Can you make it on your own?"

I think it might be David Bowie, or something similar. The voice is very deep, a male singer. Its either country or emo.
 

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my pointless searching points to The Calling, Whereever You Will Go....but the lyrics don't really match. Worth a try, it's a good song anyways.
 

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The Calling - Wherever You Will Go

I'm pretty sure, cuz the lyrics match up.

It's from 2002 haha
 
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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
A lyric goes, "If a wave shall fall, it would fall on you".
I reckons a misheard lyric. Docs is right, it's The Calling. Man it's an oldie! :p
 
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