"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anyone know how to give a good massage?

iCatch

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not one that requires oil and the person to lay down. just something quick and easy i can do after school or something.

ex. a girl you know is sitting and you go behind her and massage her traps moving your hands in a circular motion.

anyone know any good techniques? a link would be great. i want as much detail as possible
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maxtro

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It's a great skill to have. Unfortunately I don't know to do one. It doesn't seem like something you can learn by reading. I've seen classes offered but it's always couples massage.
 

Darth

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Yeah...make sure you know how to do it properly.

I was in a class a couple months ago, and the director told everybody to give the person sitting to their right a massage. Apparently I did it wrong because the girl turned around and said, tight-lipped, "Get your hands off of me."
 

sprtfn2850

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I have been told I give amazing massages and should be a masseuse. Now the girls that told me this loved me so they might have just been telling me im really good at it. but the key is communication ask them where they want it done. take your thumbs and work them in the knots dont be afraid to apply some pressure. keep moving around looking for the knots just listen for the reaction youll be able to tell if you hit the right spot ie. she moans lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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