"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anyone got a brazilian g/f

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Hey

I was trying to date this brazilian chic like 12 months ago but she gave me two many red flags - e.g cancelling dates etc so i dumped her, and i got the impression brazlians women use their body & sex as a primary way to get a man instead of their personailty.

any one has any further to comment on this, is it worth trying my luck on someother brazilians or best off leaving them off my dating list?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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THIAGO BRAZIL II said:
ehhehehe

women are equal all over the world my friend.

Yeah. Doesnt make any diffrence unless you play relgion into it. Brazilians are like any other girls...you just had a bad experiance.
 

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Tomatoes said:
Yeah. Doesnt make any diffrence unless you play relgion into it. Brazilians are like any other girls...you just had a bad experiance.
lol

Having different cultural background makes people different. I lived in Germany and Romania and there is a huge difference in how people act, how they eat etc from the old people to the young girls, although there are just 1000km between these 2 countries. Huge difference!
 

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Taviii said:
lol

Having different cultural background makes people different. I lived in Germany and Romania and there is a huge difference in how people act, how they eat etc from the old people to the young girls, although there are just 1000km between these 2 countries. Huge difference!

Thats great.....from your experiance.

I have been with girls from France, Holland, Spain, Norway, Canada, USA, UK and Ireland.

In the terms of pickup i have found very little diffrences. Like i said....play religion or tradition into it and its a new ball game....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All my g/f's were brazilian.

...and I wonder why... :D
 
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