"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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anyone ever walked up to a girl and kissed her, without talking.

Zaraza

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Imagine this... you know the girl, shes attracted to you. have you just walked up and kissed her. how did you do it? Timing wise what was the place.

just lookin into something im gonna do. Any of you done this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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result of this gesture totally depends upon till what level you have seduced her...
if your game is in its early stages and you are not sure if this is really attractio or she's just friendly to you (coz it's not uncommon for women to send out wrong signals)

If there's nothing between you guys yet...I wouldn't call this move smooth or suave...I'd call it a BOLD but not smooth...

Imagine you are standing at a place alone and a women who you have great rapport with but don't think of her as a potential partner...comes and kisses you...wouldn't you think she's a little needy or is moving too fast...

I'd suggest be subtle and not bold with your approach...

Don't rush...since if you do you are acting out of scarce mentality...

I'd suggets Kino and eye contact...and sweet nothings to start with...
 

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Ive done this a few times, but only on the dancefloor. Simple SIMPLE test: if she dances close to you, and "follows" you around the dancefloor (i.e. always seems to be in your vacinity) she will be receptive to a kiss.
 
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