"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone ever start in a brand new place?

pressure0354

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I might be getting a job in a city in which I know no-body. I was wondering if anyone has ever done that here on the forum, and if so, any advice on how to build a social network out of nothing. Probably for the more mature audience. Thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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omgwtfm8

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Meet some cool people at the workplace.

Find roommates on Roommates.com, you can find some cool people on their to live with.

Are you going to school at all?

You could pick up some hours at a job that has a social scene - Resturant/Club/Bar/Clothing Store
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, starting over in a new place allows you to use one of the best openers ever... "Excuse me, I'm new to the area. Could you..." :up:
 

Chemistry

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Yea…

Man my work has taken me to countries where I don’t even speak the native language… haha… I’ve always been a sociable person so I had a contact I’d met in working take me out… I met one of his friends… she took me out… I met some of her friends… then I met friends when I was out with them…I got invited to a party then met what is now my circle of friends there… it’s a gradual process… it’s taught me a lot about how to handle things and not just follow this DJ thing down-the-line… I’m a selfish person because I want to go where I want to go and do what I want to do, but I’m also one of the friendliest people you’ll meet when I need to be and run the English gent game down to a tee… you’ll learn that every situation isn’t just about picking up girls, it’s about meeting everybody and making acquaintances everywhere you go and girls just happens to fall into that category as well… girls see your pulling power and flock to you and you work it on them... you’ll see threads on here telling you to handle rudeness by threatening that person, but you have much more success when you're charismatic and handle people respectfully, turning the situation around so that they feel guilty and are left wanting to make it up to you…

Bottom line is you have to network like crazy… and know how to network effectively too… I went to bars alone too when I first got here... its not my preferred situation, but I ended up adding the barmaid as a fvck buddy anyway, lol...
 

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If your moving to some where brand new, you should consider reinveting your self.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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