"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anybody had afternoon date?

amoka

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I have myself booked for thursday night, Friday night... and saturday night are my boyz night so I told this chick to meet me at the school tomorrow afternoon for a 1pm date. I planned on simply taking her for a walk around the school block at 80F temperature. I don't plan on leaving too far away from the school because I have something going on at the lab. Any idea what else to do on an afternoon date? Do you treat them the same as night date?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Afternoon dates are great too. If you don't connect with her, you can easily ditch her and find something else to do. Depending on how much time you have, afternoon date can be night dates all in the same day.

I live near parks and beaches, so I have plenty of things to do during the day. Picnics work really for me.
 

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THis is stupid. You go on walks with a girl after you have kissed her and have made out with her. TAKE HER OUT TO DRINKS. You take a dog on a walk, not a chick you like. She needs a drink to relax, and some people around you to feel comfortable.


Alcohol equals sex
Dinner equals sleep
 

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Dear Amoka,
Afternoon Dates???why yes of course,if you would spin plates then No 1 girl gets Friday and Saturday,No 2 some of the rest of the weekday nights,and then for the improvers they really have to be satisfied with afternoons,and the Devil takes the hindmost....As a busy Security Guard on Night shifts,they are lucky to get that,aren't they?....but no,to a single mummy on the welfare pension,these afternoons are bliss,the luxury of personal freedom while the kids are at School,then your fancy man visits you with the luxury of a bottle of wine,a Chinese takeaway,and a box of chocolates not things a Lady like this enjoys often,then its an afternoon of hedonistic delight as the wine starts to mellow her,a happy tummy,the temptation of the bedroom,the need for a little rest,then as the afternoon sun streams in through cracks in the curtains the long missed pleasures of a fit Male body,a feeling of being desired and appreciated,for just a couple of hours before the kids come home she stands at the gates of Paradise...then its your turn to leave,with a happy heart knowing you have given a breath of sunshine to an unfortunate Woman,then it is off on your philanthropic way...Aaah.
 

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I like meeting for afternoon coffee on sundays. I get there early, buy my own beverage and read a book until she gets there.

If things go well, we go for happy hour and drinks somewhere, if it doesn't go well, I get the the hell outta there within the hour.

I've been doing it this way for the last couple of months and it's what works best for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amoka

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Lol... chick didn't show up. Never called her. Oh well, another one gone from my little play book.
 
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